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Day 341: Poisoning your own well
Eventually the conversation turned to some old war stories and how things had or hadn’t changed since my departure. And then a...
Mar 2, 20154 min read


Day 160: It’s a new life for me…
….and I’m feeling good. 160 days ago I left my job. I told everyone I was retiring…and that’s what I did. I retired from my old job…from...
Sep 2, 20142 min read


Day 156: When I grow up
She’d walk into the class and always set up at the back of the room. Quietly making her way through her practice. At the end of class,...
Aug 29, 20142 min read


Day 108: Sense of duty
I wrote yesterday about the question BB asked me at lunch, and today I got an email from a dear friend and former co-worker sharing a...
Jul 12, 20145 min read


Day 105: A million ways to say no
No one likes to be told “no”…well, most of us don’t like it. I know there are people who never hear “no”…even when it’s that direct....
Jul 9, 20142 min read


Day 54: Not just another manic Monday
This morning as I laid in bed contemplating my day, I knew I had several appointments but I didn’t want to get up. I had lots of fun...
May 19, 20143 min read

Day 41: Un-becoming everything that isn’t really you
Last week I had my first call with my life coach since retiring and we had a lot to catch up on. She didn’t know about my mom…India…Key...
May 6, 20143 min read


Day 39: Feeling honored…proud…humbled..but doing it for myself
I’ve started having these experiences that feel a bit surreal. I’ll see someone out and before we know it we’re talking about something...
May 4, 20146 min read


Day 24: A lovely day
I did it! Eight days in Key West by myself — a successful solo trip! It has been equal parts reflection…introspection…listening to my...
Apr 19, 20142 min read


Day 17: Your timing is everything
As she rubbed my hands between hers, the first thing she blurted out was “You’re never on time, BUT you’re always where you’re always...
Apr 12, 20143 min read


Day 16: Not until you learn to love yourself
Just because India didn’t happen, doesn’t mean that some kind of getaway can’t. So here I am in Key West for eight days of sun, fun, and...
Apr 11, 20143 min read


Day 1: When you catch the dream you've been chasing
I made it. Today is the first day of my retirement. No alarm clock. No shower :) No driving to work. No meetings. No usual Wednesday. And...
Mar 27, 20143 min read
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