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It's all in me
This is me. No make up. . . glasses. . . sporting my fave @alldaydarlingasheville tank & my fave #mrrogers sweater. . . sitting in my...
Apr 15, 20222 min read

Surprises & disappointments
Dear Moon Taxi, Thank you for surprising the shit out of me by being so damn good live. I'm always hopeful when I see a band for the...
Oct 20, 20212 min read


Day 309: Time to pivot
I think I’ve also made the transition. This isn’t about a life I want to lead anymore…or about the person I want to become. This is...
Jan 29, 20153 min read


Day 308: Release and let go
Where anger and frustration and sadness resided, I needed to find a way to make room for love. I needed to care for her like I would any...
Jan 28, 20152 min read


Day 290: Crazy is a perfectly acceptable part of life
I had someone make a comment to me about my blog once. They said that my writings were all over the place. One day the message was...
Jan 10, 20152 min read

Day 251: Taking on Giving Tuesday
It’s Giving Tuesday…the day after Cyber Monday and three days after Black Friday. So after a weekend of running around like crazy...
Dec 2, 20144 min read


Day 202: Feeling optimistic
Let’s just get this out of the way… Yes, I’ve been married twice already and I just signed up for a third and final go round. And yes,...
Oct 14, 20143 min read


Day 187: Victor or failure
I’m five days over the half way point in my commitment to write every single day for 365 days. And I’m mentally over it today. I’ve...
Sep 29, 20143 min read


Day 185: Looking forward to the next trip
We’re heading home today after spending the day in Boulder yesterday. To my delight, Mr. Universe fell in love with Boulder just like I...
Sep 27, 20142 min read


Day 153: Looking for a new vantage point
Sometimes I just need a break. And when I don’t listen, the body finally takes over and makes it impossible for me to ignore it. That...
Aug 26, 20142 min read


Day 109: Trust but verify
So it sort of happened today….I asked Mr. Universe to move in Wednesday night and today was his “official” move in date. While not...
Jul 13, 20142 min read


Day 108: Sense of duty
I wrote yesterday about the question BB asked me at lunch, and today I got an email from a dear friend and former co-worker sharing a...
Jul 12, 20145 min read


Day 107: Fear is no longer the chauffeur
Today I had the pleasure of grabbing lunch with a dear friend. During the course of catching up, BB asked me if I regretted my career...
Jul 11, 20143 min read

Day 41: Un-becoming everything that isn’t really you
Last week I had my first call with my life coach since retiring and we had a lot to catch up on. She didn’t know about my mom…India…Key...
May 6, 20143 min read


Day 8: Being physically present and turning the intangible into that which can be touched
For whatever reason – maybe it’s the rain – I’m in a reflective mood today. As a result, my thoughts and emotions are all over the...
Apr 3, 20145 min read
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