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Coming to you live from mediation
I type this from a windowless room about the size of a small home office where I sit with my attorney. Both of us hunkered down behind...
Jul 25, 20182 min read


Day 361: It’s all situational
Sure enough, we weren’t. I’d been unfriended. It’s not the first time and I’m sure it won’t be the last. For a brief moment I felt...
Mar 21, 20152 min read


Day 320: Feeling the full range of (e)motions
It all boils down to perspective. Perspective of how things effect you. Perspective of your reactions. Perspective of how you impact...
Feb 9, 20153 min read


Day 308: Release and let go
Where anger and frustration and sadness resided, I needed to find a way to make room for love. I needed to care for her like I would any...
Jan 28, 20152 min read


Day 253: Eurfuckingreka
Sometimes it’s amazing how all the dots connect and everything suddenly makes sense. I mean, I suppose I should be used to that by...
Dec 4, 20144 min read


Day 248: Be the punchline
I’ve always been funny. At least I like to think I’m funny. Whatever I am…however funny or not funny…I’ve been this way since I was...
Nov 29, 20141 min read


Day 245: Living for me
There are things I need to do for work…things that involve carving out some time and sitting in front of my computer…possibly with a...
Nov 26, 20143 min read


Day 215: I found your intangible
On Day 8 (boy, that seems like a lifetime ago) I vented about being told by a boy that I was missing that “intangible” quality. To feel...
Oct 27, 20141 min read


Day 212: Happy together
Whether I want to admit it or not, I’m someone who likes the people around her to be happy. I know in my bones that every one is...
Oct 24, 20142 min read


Day 169: A blow to the ego
What I saw was a couple that was clearly arguing as they made their way to the elevator. It’s probably safe to assume that alcohol was...
Sep 11, 20146 min read


Day 165: Tuning into the body
What I have had time to do, though, is sit with each to see how I felt about it…and due to the time constraints, I’ve had to let my body...
Sep 7, 20142 min read


Day 164: Learning to combat anger with love
I’ve been stuck in the latter for the past couple of days. No specific reason why…I mean there were little things that didn’t exactly go...
Sep 6, 20142 min read


Day 161: Time to create a new cult-ure
https://www.facebook.com/video.php?v=10152687483099769 Growing up on a farm in northern Indiana, surrounded by white people, my only...
Sep 3, 20143 min read


Day 138: Imagine…
Yesterday as Mr. Universe and I were driving to see REO Speedwagon and Chicago, an odd thought popped into my head. We were stopped at a...
Aug 11, 20143 min read


Day 133: A deep seated fear of betrayal
I’m angry again…angry like I have been for a while. Actually, I described to Princess Grace as a feeling of negativity that feels like...
Aug 6, 20143 min read


Day 122: Finding safety in the feminine
As a child, things at home weren’t exactly perfect. My father had severe anger issues and I was terrified of him. We all were. As the...
Jul 26, 20143 min read
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