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Jun 9, 20144 min read
Day 75: It’s official…because Facebook says so
I used to joke that nothing is real until you see it on Facebook. So I guess it’s official then…I’m in a relationship with Mr....
Jun 8, 20142 min read
Day 74: It’s a choice
So we talked about what happened and what was going to happen on Tuesday. She told me that I seemed to be handling it well. What choice...
Jun 7, 20142 min read
Day 73: When the Universe sends you flowers
She kept her composure while she told me what the doctor had said. I didn’t hear her get emotional until she explained why she waited to...
Jun 6, 20144 min read
Day 72: One breath at a time
Yesterday I found a sizable lump in my right breast. I’m not sure I can describe how I felt in the moment. It was surreal. All the...
Jun 5, 20142 min read
Day 71: What happened in the pause
My brain first went to…”This is what you get for all those wasted, unappreciated years. You hurt people so this is payback. We were...
Jun 2, 20143 min read
Day 68: I am smart
But I’ve done it for years. I’ve made these little contracts with myself…these “I AM….blah, blah, blah…something negative” statements....
Jun 1, 20143 min read
Day 67: Take the time to listen
They met him a couple of nights earlier and Mrs. Neighbor thought he was delightful (I’m sure all the muscles help with his...
May 31, 20144 min read
Day 66: Sleeping to dream
A friend asked me what I would do if The Taste got his shit together and reached out to reconnect. Specifically the question was in...
May 30, 20142 min read
Day 65: Sailing into unchartered territory
I met a new friend yesterday for coffee and we were sharing life stories of how we’ve used pro/con lists to make many, if not all, major...
May 29, 20145 min read
Day 64: Rock solid
I was fortunate to do a session with a friend present and had the opportunity to listen to her before it was my turn. This extra time,...
May 28, 20142 min read
Day 63: Careful what you ask for
After some further reflection and recent experience, I should probably add a couple of characteristics to my list of what I’m looking for...
May 27, 20143 min read
Day 62: Be good to each other
Whatever the situation, I’ve come to determine that this is the hardest part of dating. You don’t know what the other person is dealing...
May 26, 20142 min read
Day 61: Sitting atop a mound of ruins
It was a great day until it wasn’t…and isn’t that how life seems to go sometimes? Especially when you mix together a little too much...
May 25, 20141 min read
Day 60: My hero
I still see my grandpa through the eyes of a child. He passed unexpectedly when I was 19 but my most vivid memories are probably from...
May 24, 20142 min read
Day 59: Unintended consequences
I had planned to write about something different today but when I read IreneC’s thoughts on my post yesterday, I changed my mind. This is...
May 23, 20143 min read
Day 58: Trash day is every Thursday and I need to sit this shit at the curb
So, here goes…. I don’t trust myself. Correction, I don’t trust myself in one particular aspect of my life. Everywhere else, I’m good. I...
May 22, 20143 min read
Day 57: Who needs tarot cards when you have a magic collarbone
I spent so much time in my head that I’d lost virtually any connection to my intuition…especially in my personal life. I was so...
May 21, 20142 min read
Day 56: Who’s your Christopher Walken
We all have one. That secret crush that we rarely, if ever, talk about because we know no one would understand. Deep down we know it’s...
May 20, 20143 min read
Day 55: It doesn’t have to be this hard, really
I looked at him and thought for a minute, then replied with “I’m not guarded. I’m cautious. I just don’t really know you all that well...
May 19, 20143 min read
Day 54: Not just another manic Monday
This morning as I laid in bed contemplating my day, I knew I had several appointments but I didn’t want to get up. I had lots of fun...
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